Nevertheless, romantic relationships help stabilize behavior. A study published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior examined surveys of 909 people who were followed from first or second grade until 2 years after high school. According to the study, 19 or 20-year-olds who weren't in a stable relationship were 40% likelier to use marijuana and drink heavily. Although to a lesser degree than cohabitation or marriage, dating activates support and control mechanisms. Bonding and adopting their partner's behavior patterns has a positive influence on substance use among young adults. It seems stable "relation-ships" promote smoother sailing.
Stable relationships in the form of interracial marriage are at an all-time high. According to the Pew Research Center, 6.8% of couples married outside their race or ethnicity in the 1980's. In 2008 it was 14.6%. Marrying outside one's race or ethnicity was most common among Asians - 30% - and Hispanics - 25%. The percentage for African-Americans was 16%, but it was more common for black men than black women. When it comes to areas of the country, more people is the West married outside their race than in the Midwest or South. Obviously, Americans are becoming more diverse - "more colorful".
However, marriage can make you sick. In a study done at Ohio State University, 37 married couples were given eight 8-mm blisters on their forearms using a vacuum device. Then each couple was videotaped talking to each other. After 12 days the blisters had healed faster on the couples with more positive conversation styles. The researchers attributed this to the protective hormone oxytocin because the better communicators had higher levels. Couples with more marital stress have higher blood pressure and weaker immune systems. Marital stress is worse than workplace stress because it's chronic - you're "married to it".
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